This is another question I want to answer regarding what I am doing and why. These are questions I have been asked by friends in relation to this blog and the book I am writing. If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to ask or comment as I am always seeking interaction for my growth and yours.
So, heartbroken means you have gotten hurt?
Yes, like all people, Heartbroken Warriors get hurt, however we find strength in this process. Not that we seek out pain, we experience it even more readily though as our empathy and skills we learn grow. When we understand pain and suffering and heartbreak, we can approach our pain and others with Compassion and Understanding. We can model by our reactions and Love and help those that are disturbed … those that are angry … that are fearful … those that lash out and manipulate. Those behaviors that hurt us are symptoms of extreme fear and separation. We can see the lie that those that have offended us believe. We can have mercy on their acts as we know they are unconscious and only acting out with their own fear and pain.
Heartbroken Warriors use boundaries to shield them from the arrows that can hurt a person. We fight by not fighting. We fight by Allowing and Knowing. Our spear is not a spear for fighting, but an understanding of all people as One. Love is the name of the spear we use. It is unconditional which means we love because we understand that essentially all people are of God and God is Love. We allow all people to be in their choice at all times. Free will and choice are our gifts. We are not made to do anything. We have to choose to be more like our Creator. Many are not aware that they and others are Divine. Heartbroken Warriors know that all things have the energy of our Creator in them. So, we must approach all things with the respect we would have for our Creator.
We use our Spear of Love and our Shield of Boundaries to love ourselves and protect and minister to our brothers and sisters. Just like a shield, our boundaries are all about self-love and protection. We are disciplined from the daily practice we go through. Part of our discipline is the consistent use of our boundaries that protect us. We all will encounter situations that cause pain and hurt, but if we use our skills and tools, we can escape the negative effects of unwanted situations that can cause harm. We can use them for our growth and refinement to be more like our perfect Creator.
No one wants to get hurt. We do not want to slip and fall and scrape our knee, however this is how we grow. We learn from trial and error and heeding and believing advise. Even believing the wise advise we are given is based in remembrance of our falling down. When we are hurt, we care for our wounds with loving kindness, empathy and mercy for ourselves. We work at non-judgment of ourselves and others as this judgment is often rooted in fear. We give ourselves wound care and get up and try again. We learn from our pain and difficulty. We embrace change and obstacles as gifts for our opportunities to achieve our purposes and level up for the next challenges of our next life.
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