This week has been amazing for me! I don’t know if it was the planetary alignment of 7 planets along with the new moon in Pisces and Mars going out of retrograde or what. All I know is that things have fallen into place so well. There were such synchronicities everywhere. Things fit like detailed puzzle pieces. However, today when I worked with some clients, I became a bit heavy-hearted.
Today, I saw a client that I have seen for many years. She is a woman in her 40s. I know she is married and doesn’t work. Her husband makes a lot of money and she doesn’t seem very showy. I happened to see her car though and it is a Rolls Royce SUV in an amazing color with a personalized plate. What is odd about this person is she never seems to have much of an affect. I cannot ever tell her mood. Maybe she is on some sort of prescription that nulls her emotions. I am totally making an assumption and I want to note that doing this is dangerous. However, I can feel people’s energy especially when I have seen them a lot over the years and the behavior is consistent. The point is that I realized that there is some very excessive money in peoples hands and the power of that money.
I also worked with a couple today that are amazing. I have known them for a while, but just now realizing that even though they are very down-to-earth, they have big money too. Unfortunately, it seems that the more someone has, the more complicated and stressful people’s lives become. I reflected on how happy I currently am and how much I have. I feel like I have all the things a very wealthy person has. I even call myself wealthy. It is a private joke for me, which I seem to make private jokes a lot since not many get my humor at times and I am not often with too many others. I have designer clothes, a big house just for me, 2 amazing cars. I am debt free except for an inexpensive house payment. If you compared my life to the average person in a third world country, I am rich. If you compared me to the wealthy demographic I work with, my bank account pales in comparison and it is very substandard. However, my life is very simple. I love what I do. I am happy alone. I have wonderful pets. I have the most amazing sister. I have food and do not worry about paying my bills and the few friends I count are amazing.
I have worked with many very, very wealthy people. All of which have massive houses and airplanes and cars and the like. One such client I worked with for years would fly all over the country and world with his other wealthy pals for sporting events and sit front row for the best boxing matches or get the best suites for his favorite football team. Granted, he works hard for his money, but he is always trying to one up himself. He loves to name drop. He also likes to be the richest guy in the country club and this is his self-worth and identity. Many of these people are visibly unhappy. They would never show this because that would represent them as not winning. However, they are doing very low vibration things with their words and actions. Imagine what people who have everything or can have anything they want would do for instant gratification. They are children on Christmas Day unwrapping the gift from Santa and become bored in 5 minutes. They have the most fun when they work and make more money even though they have enough for many lifetimes and complain about the frustrations of their business. They seem to be nice guys in general, but I know their behavior is often dishonest and sometimes at the expense of others.
My heavy-heartedness came from feeling how many people have no idea how to find Joy in their lives. You can have excessive money. These people are not just rich. They are practically billionaires. They can only find joy in having things … credits/money in the bank accounts … overly expensive things … comparing themselves to others … judgment of people not in their demographic. I became so sad when I considered how many do not know how to have happiness. This person with the Rolls was the catalyst for my sadness.
Happiness comes from being in Union with our Creator. We must love ourselves and others unconditionally letting everyone make their own choices. We are to have Joy as a purpose and live in Freedom and Appreciation and be empowered to do anything we want to. Our Joy doesn’t come from things or control or circumstances. It is found in Love. The saddest thing is I do not know how to help people with these resources. They have to hit a bottom and their money prohibits this. It takes a life or death health situation to possibly shake their lives. This unfortunately doesn’t even work frequently. It is truly a curse to be able to write a check to relieve problems. This level of wealth never seems to hit a bottom and allow failure or a collapse.
A big lesson I have and am still learning is I am not here to rescue people. I am just like their money if I bail everyone out of bad situations. You have to start sinking in the water to learn to swim. People have to want to change. No one is listening to you when they do not ask for help. My answers are also just for me and your answers are for you. I can give a perspective and an account of what works for me, but it is for them that they have to take what resonates and leave the rest. I can inspire from my actions and that is the best thing I can ever do. Living my life in my Truth and flowing down the river letting it take me to new places is how I can inspire. Maybe some of these folk will notice my contentment, happiness, simplicity, connection to our Creator and become hopeful for a better way.
I still struggle at times with not letting go of wanting to help. This is fairly arrogant I think. I act as if others cannot help themselves and I have the real answers. Life is a series of tests with obstacles to help us grow. I will continue to find myself in situations that challenge me to ignore other’s struggles for their best interest until I stop noticing them struggling. That is true enlightenment. It seems so counterproductive to me to not help, but I must recognize what I just said and everyone has the strength to save themselves or ask for help. I want to love others by letting them struggle and splash and gulp some water as they flounder around. This seems wrong to allow, but it is so right. I must allow everyone to be in their own choice and in their own situation they have created from their choices. I was once in this situation and had to scream out for help to our almighty Creator. Suddenly, things started to change. My wonderful sister gave me the book “The Power of Now” and it really resonated. Never had I understood the present moment and that woke me up. I started seeking Truth and Wisdom. I started learning to swim.
Letting others help themselves is a hard thing for me to understand and learn, but it is truly my current lesson. I am so thankful for these situations I find myself in as they are such a gift. Letting people struggle and gulp water until they reach out for a life preserver is truly the tough love example. Would I want someone bailing me out of every lesson I am presented? I would never wake up. Allowing failure and death is the greatest help I can give to a brother or sister. This is the paradox I am understanding. I am choosing Now to learn this lesson.
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